Growing up with Alopecia deeply affected Seray's self-esteem but a hair donation changed her life and her confidence.
“Seray’s journey began at three years old when she fell ill, marking the onset of her autoimmune disorder, alopecia,” says Therese, Seray’s mum.
“It began with her hair spotting, which I noticed when she was in preschool, and I was devastated. Over the coming months, she continued to lose more and more hair until it was almost all gone. I felt powerless as a mother and very sad for my daughter because this was something I could not fix for her. I researched every type of treatment and went to many specialists, but ultimately decided not to pursue anything that could be invasive or painful for her. Over the next few years, Seray’s hair would grow back only to fall out again. This was always the case, a painful rollercoaster.
The turning point came when I discovered Variety Wig Grants. Seray and I explored the idea of prosthetic wigs which brought a profound sense of relief and comfort, especially for her. Growing up with alopecia had deeply impacted Seray’s self-esteem, and she longed to feel just like her friends. I would always encourage her, reminding her that her hair was not her identity, a message that became a source of strength and resilience for her. However, it was easy for me to say with a head full of hair. I knew I would never understand her loss entirely.
Ordering her first wig was a transformative experience. Seray chose a wig long enough that she could wear braids and ponytails like her friends, and it was fantastic to see her light up during the process. I remember so vividly seeing Seray sitting in the chair with her hair styled the day she got her first wig - the joy on her face was unforgettable. The wig gave her confidence, allowing her to swim, play sports, and fully participate in life. The change to her self-esteem and confidence was lasting.
Each time Seray needs a new wig, she always hopes for it to be long—it feels most like her, I think. As parents of children affected by alopecia, we are deeply grateful for the profound impact programs like Hair with Heart and organisations like Freedom Wigs have had on our lives. Seray is becoming more confident and no longer feels isolated because of her hair loss. Even as she enters her teenage years and embraces self-acceptance, your contributions remain essential. They are not just donations but a vital part of a process that genuinely transforms lives. The support of incredible people who give their hair is invaluable and integral to us.”
Wigs
Losing your hair can have profound psychological effects, particularly through childhood and adolescence. One specialised wig can cost up to $6,000 and lasts two to three years so the cost is prohibitive for many families. Because of the support from our amazing Hair with Heart community, Variety provides grants for kids across Australia who have lost their hair due to medical conditions such as alopecia, cancer and trichotillomania.